Denise Bolds, MSW, Ed.D, CD(DONA), CLC, CBE(ICEA)

This blog is the viewpoint of Denise Bolds & Bold Doula. Copyrighted, 2026. I have been a Doula for over 12 years and have supported more than 360 births at home, in birth centers, and in the hospital. When a family is planning a hospital birth, one question always comes up: Will my Doula labor with me at home during early labor? My answer is no. Here is why. My safety I have heard countless stories of Doulas being mugged or having their cars broken into. I have seen Doulas bitten by pets. I...

Everyone wants to say "I was there when you were born." But a crowded labor room can stall labor, risk your elders' health, and cost you privacy. Here's how to plan ahead.

A viral video of a new dad gaming in the hospital room sparked a big question: when is a birth partner not really a partner? Here's my take.